Men are creatures of double standards. But we already knew that.
In a recent survey given to single men, over half said they'd prefer a virgin bride. Ironically, each man surveyed had screwed at least two chicks in his life. So ... it's okay (actually preferred) for THEM to be experienced, just not their ladyloves.
The virgin (rare and mythical creature that it is) is a creature much sought after by men. For some guys, it's an ego thing: they want to be the FIRST and the ONLY ding-ding she ever experiences. It's all about pride and proving their masculinity. Also, if he's not well-endowed, well, how is SHE going to know? He can be crap in bed and she wouldn't know the difference.
Others want to take the role of loving teacher; they want to demonstrate sex with love, so their pure bride doesn't suffer sexual scars from casual encounters. This is a lovely motive; the virgin who finds a man like that has scored a great prize (and so has he).
Many guys will also snap up a girl who's been deflowered, but isn't terribly experienced. These men are often not that experienced themselves; so a gal who's still somewhat innocent is less intimidating.
There are guys who prefer an experienced woman; often, though, these are the guys looking for nothing but casual sex. These guys are usually pretty promiscuous themselves. But sometimes a male virgin will pursue an experienced lady: he's secure in his masculinity and isn't afraid to be taught a thing or two in bed. He may just be a keeper.
Some guys have reservations about dating a virgin; after all, if she's waited this long, why should she give it up to HIM? If he's looking for casual sex, he needs to move on. If he wants to snag her for love and forever, he'll withstand blue balls and wait until she's ready.
But some men also assume that a virgin will be crappy in bed. Now, now! Don't make assumptions. Just because she saved herself for "the right one" doesn't mean she isn't horny as hell after waiting so long!! News flash: plenty virgins are naughty AND nice.
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